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10 Things I Would Love About You!

I've been thinking a lot about getting back into the 'Dating World'. I'm not sure if I am ready or not, I think I need to give it more time. In the meantime, I have decided to think of 10 things that I really want this time around......Enjoy!

1. Personality
- This is an absolute must. Guys without personalities are boring. I like to joke around and I am willing to say that I have a great sense of humor. I want someone who will laugh and act crazy and fun with me!

2. Honesty
- No doubt about it, I didn't have much of this in my last realtionship. I will never ever ever date a man who is not honest. If you say you're going to call, call damn it! If you say you're on your way, you better show up!!! I can't stand liars!

3. Motivation
- I am very motivated, and active. I want someone who wants to make something of their life and is willing to work towards their goals. I don't want any lazy ass who would rather watch sports and work a $10 an hour job then go to college, and if you aren't going to go to college, then don't change jobs every 2 weeks...stick with something!!!!

4. Goals
-Goals are a big thing to me! They go right along with motivation. You have to have goals to get motivation to do something. If your only goal is drinking a whole 6 pack on Saturday with the boys, forget my name!

5. Not Clingy
- I want a guy who wants to spend time with me, but gives me my space too. I don't want you to beat me home from work or call me every 10 minutes to check on me. I like my 'girl time' and I want you to understand that! =)

6. Accepting of my Imperfections
-I have to admit, I'm not perfect - I definately need a guy who accepts my imperfections. I have let my weight get the best of me in the last year, that's one of my biggest imperfections. I need to loose some weight. I like to be loud when I'm having fun and I am early for everything...so what?!? There is nothing I hate more then someone who criticizes me, if you love me....you're gonna have to love all of me....even my imperfections!

7. Has Friends Who Accept Me
- I hate it when a guy lets his friends control his life. I absolutely despise it! If they don't like me and you do, tell them to f**k off! Thank you...I feel better now!

8. Has His Independence
- It is an absolute must to have your independence, unless for some reason you are living at home to support your family financially. I hate it when guys depend on their parents for everything. Guys- you're old enough to do your own laundry now!!!

9. Accepting of My Friends
- I want a guy that like my friends. I don't want him to hate my friends, and if he has an issue with them I want him to tell me....I don't expect him to like them because I told him to!

10. Makes Time to be With Me
- If you don't want to spend time with me or can't ever seem to make time to spend with me, then obviously I am not an important part of your life. It is so important to me that a guy is willing to make time to be with me no matter how hectic his schedule gets.

Alright, I feel better now! Let me know what you think? I would love to hear your opinions. Do you think I should add any?

~A

posted by Ashley at 2:30 PM