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I have a friend that pissed me off last night, and this post is dedicated to her. Michael had to postpone our plans last night because something came up with a friend of his that he works with. I'm definately not making excuses for him, but he had a legitiamte excuse. He didn't totally blow me off, he called 2 hours before he was supposed to be there and asked me if he could go. I of course, said yes- and told him to call me on his way home. I didn't sit home all night waiting for him to call- I made plans.

Sean and I went to Rebeka and Aarons to measure their bedroom last night. I was doing them a favor by driving Sean up there, if he had to do it himself- he would not have done it last night. We called them ahead of time to let them know we were on the way and we planned on eating dinner before we got there. We invited them along, to which they agreed and met us at the restaurant. Dinner was great.

Now, Rebeka knew I had plans with Michael- but I didn't bring up why I suddenly had time and she didn't ask. I do not vent to her about him, she knows that things aren't perfect, and she has never met him. Therefore, in my opinion- she doesn't have much room to judge him.

After we returned to their house to measure the bedroom, we were all sitting around the living room talking- and she asks. I told her that he had to meet a co worker and it was legit. I even told her that he called 2 hours ahead of time and asked permission. She went crazy, or as my dad would say 'ape shit'. She knew I was supposed to meet him at 9 or 9:30. When I wanted to leave at 8:30 she took my car keys. When he called at 9, I walked outside to take his call and she locked me out of the house. I fixed her ass, I screamed bloody murder and the neighbors came running over. Needless to say, she let us leave.

This girl is 26 years old and married, where does her immaturity come from? She had me so pissed my hands were shaking as we were driving home. She was absolutely fucking crazy. She isn't my mother, but she thinks she is and she certainly thinks that what she says goes. Mind you, Rebeka married the first man she ever dated. She doesn't know anything about breaking up, and all that comes along with it. She acts like getting away from him should be easy- well NEWSFLASH, its the hardest thing I've ever had to do.

I've gotten over my anger, but in the back of my mind- I still want to slap her. She even text messaged Michael from Seans phone, she got ahold if it and sent him a text message that said "Stop messin' with my girl, Fucker!". Yeah, I didn't know it until Michael showed it to me last night. He wasn't mad, but like me- he thinks she was out of line. Friends are supposed to listen, not teat you like their minor child and yell and scream at you.

This songs for her....

IT'S MY LIFE (Bon Jovi)

posted by Ashley at 9:01 AM